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I was dating a divorced man with 3 children, he's 10 years older than I. But why wouldn't he want me included in ALL of his life, makes no sense. He started working a lot of overtime and started staying less nights with me. By this time it's been 6 hours, he can't still be there, right? Both unfortunate and fortunately, I pulled up at the same time I saw him and another woman walking out together. I couldn't be around the kids/family because he didn't really see us as a serious couple. The children were allowed to run wild at my house and that was perfectly acceptable to their father. I"m a mother too (was a single mom) and know that letting your kids rule the roost is no way to run a household.
I'm here to tell you, I wasted 8 months of my life on this man. He had never felt so in love in his life, like we were meant to be. However, I was unhappy with the fact that I couldn't have anything to do with his children and when I brought the subject up, I never really got a reason on why. Suddenly I had this overwhelming, heart-wrenching feeling to go to that bar. I'd love to help women bust the sorry SOB's that think they can have their cake and eat it too like they're God's gift to women. NEVER EVER get involved with a man who has a "previously enjoyed" family. I bought a house so he could be "closer to his kids" and the second we did the ex wife got even more restrictive with the children.
Working overtime alot - he has a lot of child support to pay. But ladies, when you have that gut that something isn't right, normally you're right. "Oh I was with my brother the whole time, we walked out together." when asked who the woman was (incase it's just an old friend he ran into - hence, still making excuses) he flipped out, got extremely defensive. Tried to make me feel guilty for being there and he left me. My point is for all of you that are in this boat, please take a step back and look at your relationship with this man without the blinders on. If your divorced man with kids doesn't want you in his entire life, then you're better than that. His child support payments are so high he could never afford to live on his own.
No children visits - he's just not ready for that step, not sure how to intermingle his new g/f with his kids. You deserve someone who wants you included in everything he does. Don't let him use you up until you have nothing left to give. So basically I"m stuck with him and this unfinished house until it can become ready for sale and then we can go our separate ways (hopefully) I cannot afford to take a bath on this house!! If you see a guy with kids RUN as fast as you can in the opposite direction. i see u spent alot of your time wanting to meet his kids,which is something that i wouldnt have done.cause he have to take things slow when it comes to that.u cant rush that.i know cause i have to kids which r girls and im also going through a for me thats a scary alot of crazy ppl out there and u have to be u didnt make things even better for urself by showing up at the bar.
He had stopped off to have a beer with his brother before coming to my house. I have my colleget degree in a couple weeks and I'm moving on.
I'd recommend building a portfolio by keeping a diary / journal, though you are free to write as much as you want in addition to it. She's turned the kids against him and especially me and guess who gets the blame for it? And to top it all off, he's become more and more abusive over the last five years; enjoying being mean to me (he's got to take his frustrations with his ex and kids out on someone, right?
While they were “well-established and articulate,” she wasn’t physically attracted to them and found they had too many issues.
No point in psychoanalysis with this as it’s been going on for centuries and will continue to do so regardless of the critique.““Whoever, in middle age, attempts to realize the wishes and hopes of his early youth, invariably deceives himself. Do you think a 44 year old man should be having an intimate personal relationship with a 20 – 21 year old woman?It would be true to say most middle aged couples are really not very comfortable with the younger women and older men scenario and from our experiences middle aged women do not deal with this at all well.We have seen it infuriate older women in public places like bars and restaurants.'Why He Disappeared' is exactly what I would have wanted to write if I were a man...Evan tells it to us straight - with humor, with passion, and in a way that will stick with you - that will actually make a huge difference for you.